How do you pronounce your name?

BRIY-lee. It means gracious and strong.

Are the photos really you?

Yes. My photos are accurate and recently updated.

Will you send me a picture of your face?

No. For my privacy and yours too, I feel more comfortable sharing the photos on my website with you.

Do you answer your own emails?

Yes. I’m pretty much a one woman band, so any email discussions you read, newsletters, or images you see are from me.

Where else can I find you online?

I post regularly on Twitter and Instagram. I also keep my travel schedule updated on Preferred 411 and Tryst.

When are you available?

While my calendar always has my travel dates, I’m available most other days in New York City with advance notice. If you’d like me to email you before I visit your city, subscribe to my newsletter.

Can you host in New York City?

In New York City, I prefer to come to you. Or, I’m happy to host in an upscale hotel in Manhattan for an extra fee, typically $100–$300. I’ll confirm the amount over email.

Will you see couples?

Yes. I love spending time with couples. There are always intimate moments that can be shared among three.

Can you bring a friend?

Yes. I almost certainly have a friend who fits your bill. Reach out and let’s talk.

What forms of donations do you accept?

I accept cash only. Unfortunately, I don’t accept credit cards or any other form of electronic payment.
Deposits are handled differently, see below.

Do you require a deposit?

Once I have you screened, I’m more than comfortable meeting you without a deposit in most circumstances. However, a non-refundable deposit to cover my travel expenses is required when booking fly me to you appointments of four hours or more.

Are you available to travel?

Yes. I have a current passport with Global Entry privileges. I’d love to accompany you on vacation or fly to your city just to see you. I have a full-time remote job with a generous vacation policy and a lot of autonomy.
With enough notice, my day can be yours.

Can I bring something to drink during our date?

Bottled water is my favorite and something I always appreciate. I also like champagne or a bottle of your favorite wine.

Dine in or dine out?

For dates of three hours or more, I strongly recommend we spend some time in public getting acquainted, and let things unfold naturally. Dinner or drinks are the classic choices, but coffee shops, museums, and art galleries are outstanding options too. Time spent getting to know each other is never wasted.
If you require the utmost discretion, allowances can be made.

I’m visiting New York City. Can you show me around?

Whatever you’d like to see, I’d be delighted to accompany you. Let’s experience New York City together. There’s something so invigorating and charming about visiting familiar sights and places with someone who is new to them. Let me be your host and let’s enjoy the best that I and my city have to offer.